this post might just hurt the most. unraveling the truth from the perception is causing me quite a bit of misconception and even more fear of the repercussions. i can no longer deny my dna, it came up just the other day. knowing the oddity, when i recognized the new pattern, my new habits of […]
Writing out my thoughts has helped me to gain a new perspective of myself. In sharing these writings, it is my hope to help others to better understand themselves. It is my belief that with each of us who chooses this path of greater understanding of thy self, that it inspires others to do the same. This building momentum is the force that drives me to share, for in my vulnerability, I find my strength. I believe that you can also find yours there.
~~~In reading some of my posts, you will see that growth is not always pretty. It is in breaking apart and coming undone that a seed sprouts and breaks free of its own captivity. It is also out of mud that the lotus blossoms. ~~~Please join me in seeing the beauty of growth within the deconstruction of our limiting beliefs. ~~T.C.
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34 thoughts on “Poetry: Unraveling The Stigma”
Beautiful, Tiffany. Big hugs! You are both so adorable!
Thank you, Rita! It’s no wonder we butt heads so much: mama is still learning to love herself and it’s hard to see the reflection in her. It’s the part of me that wants to save her from herself. The more I love me, the more I love her. She’s so good at showing me where I love not. Grace for us both! ❤️
Like what I just wrote a friend: I use to believe that being ugly was protection! And then I see this comment when I was doing to start a new post about some of my old beliefs…❤️❤️❤️ serendipity, sweet Rita! We should duet that.
Thank you, Kay! Interesting to see my journey from another’s perspective. From my own perspective, it feels that I’m often fucking it up.
My children had due dates 4 years and 1 day apart. People asked why I didn’t just have twins. My reply was I only wanted to fuck one up at a time…. So often I feel like I’m bumbling through parenting more than anything. Hence my introspection into Mother this past week.
I appreciate the compliment, working on fully receiving it while I downplay my journey, again. (Smirking at self)
Interesting….I think those who are good mothers are the ones who probably feel like they are often fucking it up…..I think there’s a club or something…lol
Also, my kids were born 4 years and 30 days apart so that their birthdays are on the same numeric day of their respective months. I only wanted to fuck one up at a time too….we all bumble! I honesty believe the the introspection had its place, it does. It allows us to evaluate our behavior and how we impact our children. But, if we are present here and now, and do best to be fair, consistent, set reasonable boundaries, show vulnerability, wholeheartedness, and unconditional love….they will see our mistakes (someday, as least, lol) as just that. As a mother doing her damnedest to be the best mom she could be.
Tiffany, so beautiful, you are truly amazing,! And I’m sure your children are as well. Luv the pic.❤❤❤ Despite all the doubt and heartache I see real Joy in that photo. It makes me s smile.😆😆😆
Thank you, Mary, for reading and commenting! We each have our own way of dealing with our demons. I Bose to share it I the hopes of helping others. This is how I deal with the shame. It can only live for so long in the presence of light. ❤️ Tiffany
Beautiful, Tiffany. Big hugs! You are both so adorable!
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Absolutely, overwhelmingly beautiful. I love this so, Tiffany. You two are absolutely beautiful together.
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Thank you for all of your beautiful compliments and loving words! ❤️😘
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Sweets you are an amazing woman and that little princess is just glowing from the inside out – that’s YOU in her.
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Thank you, Rita! It’s no wonder we butt heads so much: mama is still learning to love herself and it’s hard to see the reflection in her. It’s the part of me that wants to save her from herself. The more I love me, the more I love her. She’s so good at showing me where I love not. Grace for us both! ❤️
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That’s lovely! Truly lovely.
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Thank you! I’m learning to play and laugh more.
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I love that, Tiffany. So much we missed protecting our hearts.
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Like what I just wrote a friend: I use to believe that being ugly was protection! And then I see this comment when I was doing to start a new post about some of my old beliefs…❤️❤️❤️ serendipity, sweet Rita! We should duet that.
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Serendipity?
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Sorry, synchronicity. lol. Should probably turn in, it’s been a long day. ❤️
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Get some rest, love. Sweet dreams ❤️
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Thank you! ❤️😘 you, too!
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Beautiful picture and words
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Thank you! ❤️
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You’re welcome xx
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🙂 xx
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Your journey is remarkable, Tiffany, as are your words. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Hugs to you both. And your matching smiles are gorgeous!
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Thank you, Kay! Interesting to see my journey from another’s perspective. From my own perspective, it feels that I’m often fucking it up.
My children had due dates 4 years and 1 day apart. People asked why I didn’t just have twins. My reply was I only wanted to fuck one up at a time…. So often I feel like I’m bumbling through parenting more than anything. Hence my introspection into Mother this past week.
I appreciate the compliment, working on fully receiving it while I downplay my journey, again. (Smirking at self)
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Interesting….I think those who are good mothers are the ones who probably feel like they are often fucking it up…..I think there’s a club or something…lol
Also, my kids were born 4 years and 30 days apart so that their birthdays are on the same numeric day of their respective months. I only wanted to fuck one up at a time too….we all bumble! I honesty believe the the introspection had its place, it does. It allows us to evaluate our behavior and how we impact our children. But, if we are present here and now, and do best to be fair, consistent, set reasonable boundaries, show vulnerability, wholeheartedness, and unconditional love….they will see our mistakes (someday, as least, lol) as just that. As a mother doing her damnedest to be the best mom she could be.
Let’s work on it together. 💜
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Yes, let’s! Thank you for your thoughtful and insightful comments!
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Such beautiful words Tiffany. You are so courageous and brave and I love the photo of you both, you are gorgeous!
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Thank you, Miriam! I am grateful for your continued support. ❤️
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Tiffany, so beautiful, you are truly amazing,! And I’m sure your children are as well. Luv the pic.❤❤❤ Despite all the doubt and heartache I see real Joy in that photo. It makes me s smile.😆😆😆
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Thank you, Ken! I’m grateful for the support and loving words. Glad it made you smile! ❤️
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Hello Beautiful Mom! Amazing words! Loved it
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Thank you BP for reading and commenting! Always nice to hear from you. ❤️ Tiffany
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Tiffany, you are an awesome lady. It takes a lot of courage to share your story, and I admire you for it.
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Thank you, Mary, for reading and commenting! We each have our own way of dealing with our demons. I Bose to share it I the hopes of helping others. This is how I deal with the shame. It can only live for so long in the presence of light. ❤️ Tiffany
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Yes, those pesky demons survive better in the dark. ❤️
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You are beautiful Cara and so is your little mini-tiffany.
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Thank you, Antony!
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🙂 xxxxx
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❤️☀️☀️☀️
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