Loving Fearlessly

Dear Tiffany,

Love is about loving even when it’s scary and even if it is not reciprocated. It’s not about walking away just because it’s (seemingly) one-sided; unrequited.

As heart breaking as this sounds… it’s about being present and allowing while detaching oneself from the hope that there could be more. Even if it hurts to stay, it would hurt more to walk away.

To love only with the promise of it being returned is a condition. “I will only love you if you love me,”isn’t Love, dear Tiffany.

So go forward and love fearlessly, without condition. Allow love to invade all aspects of your heart. Only then can you be free.


Your Heart

PS You can only gain from that which you actually invest and what you build now creates inroads for the future.


Painting: Leonid Afremov “Tango of Passion” via Google

Published by Tiffany

Writing out my thoughts has helped me to gain a new perspective of myself. In sharing these writings, it is my hope to help others to better understand themselves. It is my belief that with each of us who chooses this path of greater understanding of thy self, that it inspires others to do the same. This building momentum is the force that drives me to share, for in my vulnerability, I find my strength. I believe that you can also find yours there. ~~~In reading some of my posts, you will see that growth is not always pretty. It is in breaking apart and coming undone that a seed sprouts and breaks free of its own captivity. It is also out of mud that the lotus blossoms. ~~~Please join me in seeing the beauty of growth within the deconstruction of our limiting beliefs. ~~T.C.

28 thoughts on “Loving Fearlessly

  1. I love these love letters you write to youself, like a friend sharing a nugget of truth with a best friend, on several levels. So much truth in so few words! And then a perfect illustration to boot. Gorgeous, like you! ❤ Barney

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      1. I’m so glad, Tiffany! I relate, as you know. It’s going very well. He’s sore, but getting stronger. It will be a long road to full recovery, but the long term benefits will be worth every second. He’s such a motivated guy, and this thing we’ve grown makes it all so much larger and fulfilling. Thank you so much for asking!💜

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    1. Michael, thank you! Yes, your intuition is spot on. There was quite a breakthrough for me right before I penned this piece. Beforehand, there was a good bit of resistance on my part in both seeing and accepting this concept or that I could possibly be blocking against love.
      I’m hoping to do a part II in the next week or so when the time is right. This new awareness has been life changing.
      Re the image, I love this artist’s paintings. The energy in each one is palpable. This one has so much passion it has always called out to me. ❤️

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      1. I’m definitely sensing that passion in the image too and not surprised a sexy, sensual woman like yourself is drawn to it. ❤ Looking forward to part II. It would be interesting to revisit this post in a few months and share some of your reflections on this journey. There will be little wins…perhaps some big wins…and maybe some minor setbacks. Regardless, it feels like positive energy and light <3:-*

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