Shifting Paradigms

To help to improve ourselves, sometimes we ask, “What did I do wrong? Or what could I do better?”

Recently, in contemplating a particular pattern I’m finding in my relations with men, I started to ask myself these questions. Before I went too far down the “WTF” path I was on, a light bulb went off. Suddenly it occurred to me that the real question I need to be asking is “What am I doing right?”


This naturally lead to answering for myself the following questions: How am I now setting healthier boundaries? How am I now connecting with men in a way that is trusting and open vs doubtful and closed? How am I now expressing myself and my needs more openly and receiving respect in return? And how about how I am mentally exploring my sexuality vs physically

So I ask you, dearest reader, to now reflect: how are you doing right by yourself  today? This is especially poignant if there has been a change.


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Published by Tiffany

Writing out my thoughts has helped me to gain a new perspective of myself. In sharing these writings, it is my hope to help others to better understand themselves. It is my belief that with each of us who chooses this path of greater understanding of thy self, that it inspires others to do the same. This building momentum is the force that drives me to share, for in my vulnerability, I find my strength. I believe that you can also find yours there. ~~~In reading some of my posts, you will see that growth is not always pretty. It is in breaking apart and coming undone that a seed sprouts and breaks free of its own captivity. It is also out of mud that the lotus blossoms. ~~~Please join me in seeing the beauty of growth within the deconstruction of our limiting beliefs. ~~T.C.

17 thoughts on “Shifting Paradigms

  1. Hhmmmm, have to think on this one. I really like the direction you are going with these recent posts. Especially positive and encouraging! Hugs sweet soul sister, ❀️ Barn

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  2. An excellent post! You’re right in everything you said. I always ask myself “What did I do wrong?” Always finding myself wanting in some way and then struggling to get my head back above water. I don’t know how to change that except to be more positive and loving toward myself. I treat people better than I do myself so often. But thank you for sharing these empowering thoughts. I needed to read this today because I’m in a self-hating mood right now. Best regards to you sweetheart, Caraβ™₯

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  3. Finally home from work with time to think on it. I finding that my issue is in changing the way I think about myself, it has been so negative for so many years. I’ve decided I need to search the scriptures to see how my Creator looks at me and meditate on that instead of the lies and negativity!😊 Barn

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