Sit back for just 30 seconds and ask yourself what you believe about yourself and your own needs. Please write your thoughts down.
Here are some beliefs I have had…
Have you also believed?
~your needs are too great?
~that you are broken, irreparable?
~that there is just not enough time? that you don’t have the time?
~that you are not worthy of love?
~that there is something inherently wrong with you?
~that self-care or taking care of your needs is selfish?
~that regardless of what you do, you will never be good enough?
In other words, what do you tell yourself that keeps you from taking the time and effort to love and care for you?
Life is too short to live in misery and in our own shadows. Taking care of ourselves and loving ourselves are the keys to ending our own misery. Step through and see there is nothing inherently wrong with you. Love you, please.
Believe in you as I do. In the video below, see this young boy through. He believes in you, too! Self-love is like riding a bike…IMHO. Trust me, it’s a short view and worth the time.
Love to you as you sort through the things that keep you from fully shining your own light and stepping fully into you own power! It can be arduous, sometimes painful, and yet you are worth your own time. You are worth your own love. Just remember to celebrate the successes: Two thumbs up for Rock N Roll!
Namaste
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You’re amazing you know 🙂
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Thank you, Ziggy! I am doing all of this work, myself. Still working through the nuances of seeing myself as beautiful. Amazing, well, that’s a higher level! I appreciate hearing it, now to let it sink in 😉
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You’re helping me see things differently.
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Ziggy, thank you, this comment made my day! This is why I do this, to help us all see life differently by lighting our own lights. Life doesn’t have to be all misery! 😘
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Very inspiring words Tiffany. xo
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Thank you, Miriam! I write about the very things I’m working through myself. ❤️
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I think we all do. Then we just have to put them into action … warmest wishes to you my friend. xo
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Yes, living it all the best I can. I find more and more grace arrives with each increment I embrace. (Ohh, sounds like a post!) ❤️ xoxo
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Yes, a post in the making … ♥
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🙂 thank you for the inspiration, Miriam!
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You’re very welcome Tiffany. xo
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Good stuff, sweet Tiffany ❤️
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Thank you, sweet Rita! ❤️😘
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My pleasure
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Oh, that’s what she said!
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Lol
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I can relate to evaluating just this. Lovely post!
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Thank you, Kay! ❤️ we seem to share quite a bit.
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It’s lovely to find others whose letting go process is similar! It’s been (and will be!) a long process for me, in increments, over many years, but much more intensely the last 4 or 5, and extremely so the last year.
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Fantastic! No wonder we have so many similar themes 😉 ❤️
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I love this and so true. I may have to take another look.. Have a good day Tiffany. I hope you like everything you see in your introspection..
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Sapphire, it’s definitely a process of cleaning up 😉 hope you also have a good day! May we all be free of our limitations
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Beautiful. You should be awarded a medal for this post.
Thank you.
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Thank you! Just sharing what I see 🙂
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You are a source of light and inspiration as we each battle with our own shadows. ❤
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Thank you, Michael, for your kind words. You have also been an inspiration.
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Learning how to do this now. Nice blog 🙂
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Thank you Cristal, both for the compliment and the work you’re doing!
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I’ve been hearing this a lot lately. I’ve never spent any time thinking only about me and my needs. It is something I need to do. Thank you for sharing this.
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Thank you for being willing to change your perspective!
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Timely post for me, Thank You Tiffany! Yes to each and every at some point and amazingly enough I think we touched on each and everyone of these at the first formal recovery group meeting Tuesday nite. This next twenty weeks is gonna take more courage than I have ever mustered before but I find tremendous encouragement here! Thank You! Ziggy is right, Beautiful and Amazing, soak in that awhile, you deserve it!
❤️🌹😊 Barn
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Barney, glad to hear these words are helping and supporting your recovery. ❤️ you have everything you need within you, but fear blocks your access to what you need. 🙏🏽❤️
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