Writing out my thoughts has helped me to gain a new perspective of myself. In sharing these writings, it is my hope to help others to better understand themselves. It is my belief that with each of us who chooses this path of greater understanding of thy self, that it inspires others to do the same. This building momentum is the force that drives me to share, for in my vulnerability, I find my strength. I believe that you can also find yours there.
~~~In reading some of my posts, you will see that growth is not always pretty. It is in breaking apart and coming undone that a seed sprouts and breaks free of its own captivity. It is also out of mud that the lotus blossoms. ~~~Please join me in seeing the beauty of growth within the deconstruction of our limiting beliefs. ~~T.C.
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I can assure you it’s not as good as you’re probably thinking, Sir! Online dating and meeting 2men over 3 weeks time who I had similar roller coaster rides with. Hence this poem and the post about Romantic Love that followed. I’ve hidden my dating profile and am wondering 1. If it’s worth it to unhide and 2. If online dating has the capacity to help connect me with men who are truly okay developing a friendship (not FWB) vs the Romantic Love roller coaster. I want slow & steady, not fast & crash.
It’s important to do very good qualification of these candidates up front. Often times other women can be very helpful with this. Once they pass the qualification, then you need to set your expectations. This is advice I often give to subs looking for a Dom, but I think it generally applies. I wish you the very best and I’m here as a sounding board if you wish.
It is a great mystery that though the human heart longs for Truth, in which alone it finds liberation and delight, the first reaction of human beings to Truth is one of hostility and fear! -Anthony de Mello
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Thank you, Sir! It’s been an interesting month 🙂
I hope you are well!
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I hope the same for you Tiffany
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Thank you, Sir! Just learning more lessons, sometimes the student is resistant 😉
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Well now I am curious…
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I can assure you it’s not as good as you’re probably thinking, Sir! Online dating and meeting 2men over 3 weeks time who I had similar roller coaster rides with. Hence this poem and the post about Romantic Love that followed. I’ve hidden my dating profile and am wondering 1. If it’s worth it to unhide and 2. If online dating has the capacity to help connect me with men who are truly okay developing a friendship (not FWB) vs the Romantic Love roller coaster. I want slow & steady, not fast & crash.
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It’s important to do very good qualification of these candidates up front. Often times other women can be very helpful with this. Once they pass the qualification, then you need to set your expectations. This is advice I often give to subs looking for a Dom, but I think it generally applies. I wish you the very best and I’m here as a sounding board if you wish.
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Thank you, Sir, all around! I appreciate it and will do best to follow through. 😉
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Feeling your words here. Hugs to you xo
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Thank you, Miriam! ❤️️ many hugs back
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Thanks Tiffany ❤️
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You’re welcome!
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