Judgement. We all hate receiving it, yet when we scratch the surface, many of us are living our lives judging ourselves and others. In observing my own thoughts and behaviors, I see where I judge nearly constantly, both myself and others. In hearing others talk, and in attempting to separate myself from the habit ofContinue reading “The Pain of Judgement”
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Faith in Receiving
It is very easy for me to give, ’tis much harder to receive. I give of my time, patience, efforts and knowledge to others everyday. Sometimes I get paid for it and sometimes I don’t. Religious dogma and society support giving more than receiving. “It’s better to give than to receive,” Acts 20:35 (KJV). Welfare recipientsContinue reading “Faith in Receiving”
Healing the Sense of Brokenness
When we feel broken or incomplete, we seek external fixes from which to feel whole. Maybe we seek this “fix” from others, through our behaviors (shopping, chemical dependencies and even positive things such as working out) or we may even just outright deny there is even a problem. Maybe we lash out and and getContinue reading “Healing the Sense of Brokenness”
Too Busy Mopping Up the Floor to Turn Off the Faucet!
How often in life do we focus on treating the symptoms instead of getting to the root problem? Please take a moment here to pause and reflect. We all do it, we’ve done it and many of us are living it; daily. It seems that each year that passes the expectations increase: work, life, home,Continue reading “Too Busy Mopping Up the Floor to Turn Off the Faucet!”
Celebrating the Pause
Yesterday marked the half-way mark between Winter Solstice and Spring Equinox in the Northern Hemisphere, and Summer Solstice and Autumnal Equinox in the Southern Hemisphere. It is interesting that many of us may also find ourselves in transition during this time. I most certainly do! There is a mixture of excitement and restlessness here. AsContinue reading “Celebrating the Pause”
Shifting Purpose & Writer’s Block
In a way, I feel as if this “head cleaning cassette tape” were something I had used on myself! And thus I have also “dated” myself… What does one write about when the purpose of writing has suddenly disappeared? This blog was born out of my desire desperate need to understand and share my process ofContinue reading “Shifting Purpose & Writer’s Block”
From Perfectionist to Artist: An Enneagram Journey for a 4 wing 3
This is part of a series of delving into The Enneagram System. If you would like to share your journey with understanding your Enneagram, please let me know. Two guest posts have already published and more are planned! Some Enneagram resources refer to the Four as “The Creative” while others use “Romantic,” and even “TragicContinue reading “From Perfectionist to Artist: An Enneagram Journey for a 4 wing 3”
The Enthusiast! Enneagram 7 Guest Post
This is a guest post from G of bone&silver, who shares her experiences of discovering her Enneagram as a 7, which is described as the Enthusiast by the Enneagram Institute. If you would like to share your experiences with self-discovery through the Enneagram, please message me through gmail at “Tiffanybeingfree.” Thank you, G, for sharingContinue reading “The Enthusiast! Enneagram 7 Guest Post”
Guest Post: “The Defender” Enneagram 6 Wing 5
This is a guest post from a good friend of mine, Loreto, who showed me the power of understanding both the overall Enneagram System and my own number. He also showed me many of the tools included in the post “Understanding Personalities with The Enneagram“. After reading the written description of my own number, IContinue reading “Guest Post: “The Defender” Enneagram 6 Wing 5″
Exposing & Accepting Imperfections
Much of the first half of my life was spent hiding my perceived flaws and imperfections, even from myself. While it helped me to survive childhood, I’ve found that hiding was keeping me miserable. Through unmasking myself, blogging has gifted me with connecting with others who have also suffered by hiding their perceived flaws. ItContinue reading “Exposing & Accepting Imperfections”
